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Always Check Your Girlfriend’s Bag When She Visits You, See What I Saw In My Girl’s Bag

My name is Festus, when I was in the university I belonged to a clique of friends, we were not into crime but into girls. One thing that we used to do then was that, any girl that came to visit us and she went to the bathroom, we would quickly open her bag to go through her items, that would give us an idea of the kind of girl she was and to also know if she had the intention of spending the night.

As at then we used to see many funny things in most of the girls’ bag that came to visit anyone of us and it was so much fun.

That attitude of checking inside any girl’s bag that came to visit me when she was in the bathroom became part of me even after I graduated from the university.

After I graduated and also finished my NYSC, I had a job in Port Harcourt and a girl I was going out with in Delta state – my state of origin, came to spend the weekend with me. I had already started to take our relationship very serious because I was planing to settle down since I already had a very nice job in an oil firm and also bought a car.

She arrived my place on Friday with the intention of leaving on Sunday evening. So when she went to the bathroom to take her bath, I quickly went to search her bag and I found some clothes, night gown, pants, bra and so on, but at the bottom of the bag I found something that caught my attention – a “native chalk” wrapped in a red handkerchief and about N10 thousand. So I quickly kept everything the way I met them and closed the bag.

I kept wondering what she was doing with a red handkerchief and native chalk in her bag. So I started monitoring her, I refused to allow her cook for me so that she would not put it in my food. We were both going out to buy food throughout when she came.

On Sunday when she was supposed to leave, as she went to the bathroom to take her bath, I decided to go through her things to find out if the red cloth with the “native chalk” was still there, but when I opened the bag I saw one of my pair of boxers and my NYSC picture inside her bag, I screamed, Jesus! I decided to pour everything out of the bag, but I was unable to find the “native chalk.” The money in the Bag had also increased to about N20 thousand.

When she came out of the bathroom she was shocked. I asked her what my pair of boxers and picture were doing inside her bag? She immediately knelt down and started begging me, she said she was not going to hurt me, that she took it because she loved me.

I was very angry and I slapped her, I told her I was going to end our relationship if she did not tell me the truth, she then started crying and told me that it was her pastor that said she should bring it, that he was going to pray on those items to know if was her future husband.

So I told her to give me her pastor’s phone number let me call him to confirm what she said, but she said she did not have it. She kept crying and saying that she really loved me that was why she did it, that I should forgive her. After so much begging I then told her I had forgiven her so that she could leave my house.

After she left, she called me several times but I didn’t pick her calls, she even sent me several text messages but I never replied her. Two months later she sent me a text message telling me she was pregnant for me. After reading it I did not reply her because I felt she was only trying to get my attention.

Two weeks later, I received a call from a woman that introduced herself as her mother, she told me her daughter said she informed me that she was pregnant for me and I did not even call her to know how she was doing and I would not even pick her calls. I told her that it was not because she told me she was pregnant that I stopped picking her calls or refused to call her, I then told her what happened.

After I finished telling her mother what happened, she then informed me that she was already aware of what happened, that her daughter already told her and that her daughter was telling the truth, that it was their pastor that sent her to bring my picture and any item that I had used.

She said her family including her husband who is the father of my girlfriend wanted to see me, they wanted me to come and tell the family my plans for their daughter and the baby, that their daughter cannot have a child outside wedlock.

Ever since then I have been having sleepless night. I don’t even know how to go about it, I don’t have interest in their daughter anymore because I believe she is diabolical and I don’t know if I am actually responsible for the pregnancy. Please I need your advice, should I marry her because she is pregnant for me or not ?

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56 Comments

  1. Thank God for this, take cure & full responsibility till the baby is deliverd, Opt for a DNA (paternity) test..

    But u get mind still quash her after the first revelation..

    1. Brother blood is ticker dan water…..accept her and the child she’s ur true woman. Had it been she had negative intention she wouldn’t had took-Samin…be wise!!

  2. Avoid that character bro,be a man if not indiscipline why do u check in women’s bags…it is condemned even if she is ur wife.. style up…that’s kiddish…first grow up it’s seems ur still a high school boy then u will know what u want…among things they consider they don’t consider what a lady carry in her hand bag.

  3. Please, forgive her and marry her. Talk to her as a good friend to desist from that character. The devil you know is better than the angel you don’t know. Thanks

  4. You have the best answer to your question; you are going to be the supposed man of this home, so, you decide what you want, not even what the holy spirit wants. Your decision matters most here, be scrupulous in calculation to determining if the pregnancy is yours, if yes, don’t deny your first blood; don’t make such a mistake. Ya gazie.

    1. Pls dat girl is not wife, pastor should know all about her and her doings,d parents should go and see her pastor with her maybe the real truth will be exposed

  5. Bro it’s better to Care for the child even when it’s unborn .When baby is born go for DNA test to prove who’s child

  6. My dear brother if are not interested in marrying her take responsibility for your child if she said the child is yours after the delivery o the baby to know if the baby is your you can go for DNA test

  7. Bro after seeing all this things you still sex her. Nna if na me I no do anything o. I will ask here there and then.
    Even after she left, as she is going cut off, sound it in her head. I have nothing to do with you again.

    As for the baby, she can deliver the baby. Since then they have not sent the pastors number to confirm he sent her. Na juju be this o. Correct one.

  8. Every relationship must not end in marriage.
    However, when you said that pregnancy has resulted, then go for a dna test to be sure.
    You can get her an accommodation and every care a pregnant and nursing mother should get, but keep your dick under lock and key.

  9. You did not tell us how you enjoyed the girl, please complete your story for more advise, I want to Know if you lick her or sex her orally, please did you do it from the back,, becaus you dine enter and I want you to know that since the girl preaperd herself very well before coming she will do the same soon. Please tell us how you enjoyed the charm girl.

  10. You did not tell us how you enjoyed the girl, please complete your story for more advise, I want to Know if you lick her or sex her orally, please did you do it from the back,, becaus you dine enter and I want you to know that since the girl preaperd herself very well before coming she will do the same soon. Please tell us how you enjoyed the charm girl.

    1. She had sex with you outside weedlock so giving birth outside weedlock can not be a crime. Quit the relationship or else she and her family will remain thonrns on your flesh.

  11. Tell the girls family to wait until she gave birth. After the birth do the DNA test, if the child is yours take responsibility for the child but don’t marry the girl so that you will not be in bondage.

  12. My brother, u should know by now that light and darkness have nothing in common. The family of the girl are fetish and to be sincere wit u, pray with wisdom and understanding telling God to reveal the secret of that family. Don’t be restless abt the family of that girl. Do u know that God has already given u the first revelation concerning the girl by what u saw in her bag!? So, end ur relationship btw u and the girl family. Stop picking they calls and stop replying they msgs. Thank u.

    1. The truth of the matter is that girls these days are so sly and cunning! There’s a very big possibility that the pregnany might not be there! So take note of this possibility before you have sleepless nights for nothing!

  13. You need deliverance from those diabolical things,because only through sex you get attacked,see a real man of God like wiseman Daniel who can advise you…do a DNA test to see if you the father.

  14. To tell you the plan truth just put your God first in everything you do to take perfect control he will lead you through, God will never let his son go astral,find a better pastor or prophet and tell him or her the issues,so let the holy spirit leed you

  15. Young man you can’t eat your cake and have it,do the DNA of the child to know if you are the biological father,either yes or no then settle the lady so that the law of Kama does not catch up with you because you have carnal intimacy with her,God help you from these matter and give you wisdom to overcome.

    1. If you are normal, y having unprotected sex with her, after seeing red hankachief with chalk?
      My friend, go and carry your responsibility joor

  16. Go ahead and marry the woman because you live her.
    But it obvious that she deals in the Occult to charm men.
    However you will have to accept this situation totally.

    Study her character and go ahead with your plans ahead.
    Call me on 00233 020 1429391 so that you can happy.
    The mother is the key to the relationship,

  17. You claimed you saw a piece of white chalk, whether native or classroom type and a red cloth, resulting in you, forbidding her to cook for you. Did you sleep with her and why if you did? Protected or unprotected? Why did you not tell her immediately you saw those items and send her away ? Maybe you also have your own charms. Did the pastor also give her the white chalk and red cloth? If your story is not fictitious, then you are completely and comprehensively finished. Only GOD through LORD JESUS can save you.

  18. You derailed lately after discovering that the girl is on a mission. You shouldn’t have slept with her RAW after interrogating her. Two wrongs can’t make a right anyway, don’t marry the girl for any reason, determine the paternity of that baby once delivered to assume responsibility or otherwise.

  19. My dear Brother live that Girl alone ooo, Look For Good Church And Good Pastor To Pray for you, GOD Save Your Live

  20. Is your pastor aware of this,if no go and confess to Him, and then He will give you an advice on what to do.

  21. How did d money increase. Lover boy watch they don dey use for juju. If u go near again u might not be dat Lucky

  22. bro forget about that girl, went to a true call prophet of God to seek the face of God about the pregnancy, before u will go for medical check up to know whether ur responsible for the pregnancy.

  23. 1. Ok, d pastor asked for ur items… was it d pastor that also, first, gave her d red handkerchief and native chalk? If yes, for what?
    2. Is it difficult for one to cook up a plan with someone who may pose as a sibling, mother, father, or even a pastor? How’re you so sure that d person u spoke with is, indeed, her mother? Diabolical people are not trustworthy.

    1. Allow her to bear the child then you can go settle things with her. See I for one will not advice u to marry out of pity. U loved the girl but she broke the relationship her self by mixing love with diabolism so it’s not your fault bro . Make a decision that will secure your future

    2. Thunder wey dey pregnant, carry belle, back pikin fire you there!

      You must be the most stupid boy on earth.
      Long story short, you searched her bag, so suspicious items, which made you not to allow her to cook for you, yet you went eating the forbidden food unwashed and uncooked; You ate it RAW!!!

      If you are my brother, I will disown you.

      Your dumbness is raised to power 1000.

      Go face the music and enjoy the dance.

      Nonsense!

  24. Why are scared playboy when you were playing on the girls emotions in the campus and after graduation continue being a play boy you can’t eat your cake and have it you have meet your match you didn’t tell us tell us the type of charms you were using on them but only tell us fairy tales when you ran out of luck face the music playboy whether you Mary her or not you must pay for your sin because the bible says whatsoever a man soweth shall he reap

  25. Brother do not marry that girl oo, because I do not believe her, even one bit, you can go to the hospital to do DNA test, if the child is your’s you can be sending money for them to take care of the child, but anything about marriage between you and her is over, search for another girl.

  26. The suicide mission was orchestrated by her mom and if you had fallen into their trap, well! The story is left for those who had fallen victims before better still, find out from Nollywood

  27. The suicide mission was orchestrated by her mom and you had fallen into their trip well! The story is left for those who had fallen victims better still, find out from Nollywood

  28. Marrying her would be your biggest, regrettable mistake for the rest of your life. Tell her mom if she calls again not to ever disturb you again with further calls that you had signed off where her daughter is concerned and nothing would make you change your mind to that effect. Believe it or not the mother is the number one accomplice who actually sent her that suicide mission but God delivered you.

  29. Mr Man run for ur life n pray very well, I can’t advise u to marry such a lady, I’m also a lady, she want too far

    1. You derailed lately after discovering that the girl is on mission. You should have slept with her after interrogating her. Two wrongs can’t make right anyway, don’t marry the girl for any reason, determine the paternity of that baby once delivered to assume responsibility or otherwise.

  30. Marrying her would be your biggest, regrettable mistake for the rest of your life. Tell her mom if she calls again not to ever disturb you again with further calls that you had signed off where her daughter is concerned and nothing would make you change your mind to that effect.

  31. Don’t dare go to the family, run for your life bro, if u marry her u won’t live long, u will be sick gradually till death when u marry her. Please don’t connect with her again, forget about the pregnancy, thank God u even discovered who she is. Run for you life

    1. You just took the words out of my mouth…with everything u saw ur body still rise up? Some guys are just okain suicidal. .wether she finally used d charm or whatever it is, or not ..bottom line is u still got caught cos u chose to get caught…with all d red flags u still with ur korokoro eye open went all d way… there’s no half measures with d devil bro…I sincerely pray u get out of this

  32. It’s a lie, it’s not a pastor that ask her to bring your inner wear and picture, your name or picture is enough for any pastor which she can have by using her phone. What about the white chalk and red cloth? Stay away from the entire family. Baby or not, move on with your live, if the child is yours, she will still come back after the baby is born, then take the child for DNA but for now, stay completely away, they’re evil.

  33. She’s truly diabolical, but if you insist on marry such a woman pls do your Will and put my name on it. Because very soon her pastor will want your head in the platter of gold😁

      1. Don’t try it o. Make sure you do a DNA test for the baby when it’s born before assuming responsibility of the child. She is diabolic and believes in fetish things otherwise a true christian would refuse such demands from a so-called pastor. What if he harms you claiming to be helping. God forbid!

  34. I say run , I say run for your life bro , ok don’t first react awkward about the issues about you , leave along the pastor issues and focus on your baby , give her aid untill the baby is born to confirm if it’s really yours ,, and if true, the sit and plan on how you’re gonna look after the child, MARRY THE LADY WHEN YOU ONLY LOVE HER , or you’re gonna regret this for the rest off your life … Wish you the best

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