As an individual, there are top secrets that you should not be sharing with each and every person you meet on the way. A lot of dreams have been shattered because of wrong inputs from close friends which resulted in jealousy. Human beings are inherently selfish and wicked so much that they are not always happy with another person’s success stories.
As 2021 begins, you should be careful with the kind of people you share your secrets with since some may use them against you. It’s important therefore to try as much as possible to have your own secrets.
The following are therefore 4 things that you should be careful with before you share your secrets:
1. Family Secrets: As a family, there are some things that you should not be sharing with anyone. Some of the people you are sharing with might use those secrets against you. Sharing family secrets will be opening channels for enemies to come and maybe attack your family.
2. Marriage Secrets: You are not supposed to be sharing marriage secrets with the outsiders. You should be careful with who you tell your marriage secrets with. In case your husband has a weakness, its not good to be sharing it out with anyone. Some people will think your marriage is not stable yet it is experiencing challenges like other normal marriages. You need to be careful therefore before you release any weakness concerning your wife or husband.
3. Business Plans: This is very important and crucial. You might share your business plans with the enemy that might in turn hijack your business idea and apply it to themselves. These might include thieves or robbers. They want to find out how you are keeping your money or records so that they can be able to attack you. You need to be careful therefore when beginning or running a business.
4. Relationship Life: Every relationship has ups and downs. You might want to share your secrets only to find yourself in trouble. The person you are sharing your secrets with might not be interested in helping but to get a way to ruin your life with your partner. This is why you should be careful with your relationship life. Someone might be waiting for your break up so that he or she can replace you.
In summary, what people don’t know, they don’t ruin it. Always learn the ability to surprise people with the success you make from all your endeavours.
Always move with a certain mindset that you don’t owe anyone anything. As 2021 has jumpstarted it 365-days journey, you need to be strategic and smart in dealing with people, especially close friends and family, it will help you in getting positive results this year.